Care Giver

The plan is take care of mum at home, firstly to look for helper, who is experience to look after the old and sick folk. Not necessary to be nursing experience.

Very quick that I got some one able to talk and look after mum, I was very positive toward this plan.

When time nearer, I realized actually is not so simple get one maid to look after, it must be experience to take care and willing to communicate and cheer her up when she is down emotional spirits.

Therefore, the plan to bring mum back home to be postpones. I have to re-apply from maid agency to recruit some one being proper train to look after such patient.

As per family close friend recommendation, I went to this specially maid agency only recruit Philippine’s maid well train to look after old and sick person.

Home Care

After a period of observers, mum conditions are more stable, another word is time to discharge from hospital.

Currently looking for the long way of take good care for her to be plan, for mum is care management and no further treatment, unless her health condition is good enough to take treatment. These are unlikely at this moment.

There are not many choices for us, either to hospice home or home care.

Look at mum condition now, she is performing so well, should not be problem to take care for her at home.

Recovery

Mum recovery after admitted to hospital on 8 Mar 2007. Due to mum condition critical during the day of admission we informed close relatives. Therefore, they are many visitors each day, but mum able to communicate with all relatives, friends and Church members prayer; she is brave enough to accept pray to God that releases her pain, although normally she was only praying to Tua Pek Kong & KuanYin.

As promised to keep her company, since 8 Mar 2007 we all 24 hours beside her to take good care for her. We, six of us take term to stay overnight with her in the hospital. She feel very touching that all of us suddenly so care and close to her, unlike normal time each of us are all busy for own carrier or business and only talk not more than fifteen minutes with her.

Out of Internet world

Since February onward, all Internet activities had been stop, due to my dearest mother sickness, 100% of my time was company her or brought her to hospital follow up numerous check out procedure.

Suddenly the world has changed, loss all interest on either internet activities, regularly exercise program. Although I knew there are opportunity every where, what is most important than your good health, without healthy how can you achieve your goal?

Slow down the footstep, consider of what is most important to do next?

Healthy living style

All the while has been talking of healthy living style, health food, how to take care your diet, how to carrying on regularly exercise etc..

But even you are one of the above regularly healthy person, the disease will still follow you, yet you are not aware, it may discover once of the day, and that is the end of the day.

Currently, this happens to my dearest mother, at her old age (almost 80) yet discovers she has seconda primary ovarian tumour. Normal term is ovarian cancer.

She is very weak, no treatment can be done at this moment.

What can we do for her is give as many as we can are “love”, let her feel that all of her children are loving her so much and try to reduce her pain and suffer from this disease.

Blog workshop

Lately, there are more and more local related blog workshop, to create a blog is easy, but how to make it popular is another specific technique has to learn, the skill mentioned by the trainer is sound simple but yet there cover a lot of information, skill, knowledge, writing technique and interactive communication etc.

The regularly maintain it is the most important skill has to achieve and consistently update your blog is the must.